I have experimented with a variety of the captive ball chastity belts (cbs) out there, which in my humble opinion, is a misnomer. In practice, these devices really should be called chastity devices as opposed to chastity belts, since they do NOT have a belt attached to them and reply on trapping the testicles behind them so that they hang from your anatomy like a Christmas tree decoration. I find them neither sexy-looking…or comfortable. For this cb aficionado, only a Tollyboy or conventional Florentine design that prevents access to the genitals as well as the anus and has a lockable waistband, is a true chastity belt. Your mileage may vary.

There are two other very fine belts out there, albeit quite expensive, but worth every penny of their cost in my opinion if one can afford them. And both approach the topic of chastity from two completely different but equally valid and workable directions.

One excellent quality manufacturer whose fine craftsmanship is outstanding, is Walter Goethals, the owner and operator of Cararra who is located in Belgium. http://www.carrara-designs.be/products/chastitybelts/index.html The two models he offers are the heavy duty model which I own and love and the Cararra Concept belt which I intend to order once I have returned to the weight that is appropriate for my height and build.

It is a beautiful device to behold even when not being worn and even more beautiful (and enticing) when worn by a male model with an attractive, well maintained body. This is a serious cb for those who have played with the rest and and are ready for the best.

The other is Latowski, located in Germany http://www.latowski.de/latowskiFlash/410.htm. Looking more like a pair of stainless steel Speedos rather than a cb, this one also has great appeal for me as an emerging exhibitionist because it can actually be worn in a swimming pool, private costume party or other public places where total nudity would be prohibited.

Incorporating a custom fitted silicone insert in which to house your penis and your testicles (well lubed it is advised) and which has been described as being akin to the feeling of actually having intercourse, it is a “dressing for pleasure” garment that will also make sure that you will not be able to indulge yourself in carnal desire outside of your own self-imposed pleasure constraints. LOL

Sexual bliss comes in many shapes and forms.

Oddly, I do that arm shake thing too – when I’m super upset, one of my arms/hands trembles. I thought that was only me.

I’m glad things are looking up.